Separating Finances Before a Divorce Is Final

Dear Liz: My wife and I each had excellent credit when we married 10 years ago. We are now divorcing (amicably). Since we married, we have put everything in her name: two houses in succession, three cars, all car insurance and utilities. We refinanced our house in February with her name first.

I recently opened checking and savings accounts in my name only and had my paycheck deposited there instead of our joint account.

What steps should I take before a divorce decree to be sure I retain a great credit score?

Answer: To protect their credit, divorcing couples should make sure to close all joint credit accounts and transfer any balances to the partner who will be responsible for paying the obligation.

The same is true for mortgages and other loans that are in both names. Whenever possible, these debts should be refinanced in the responsible party's name only.

All this should be done before the divorce is final. Otherwise, your ex can trash your credit -- deliberately or not.

If your name is still on the mortgage, car loans or credit cards, your scores could plummet if she misses a payment. You would have little recourse because your creditors aren't bound by your divorce agreement, even if it plainly requires her to stay up to date on these obligations.

Closing accounts and opening new ones can inflict temporary dings on your credit, but these pale in comparison to the damage done by a single skipped payment. If you want to keep that amicable vibe and your excellent scores, separate your credit accounts now.

Dear Liz: I would like to know how best to use a $100,000 inheritance. I am a stay-at-home mom, age 46. My husband, 42, earns $100,000 a year.

We owe $132,000 on our house and have no other debt. We pay off our one credit card in full monthly. He puts the maximum into his 401(k). We have two sons, ages 5 and 8.

Should we use the money to pay down our mortgage? I'm not interested in saving for college. We will be retiring about the time the kids are ready for college and we plan to have them take out student loans.

Answer: If you can save for college, you probably should.

College costs show few signs of moderating, so your older child might face a bill of $140,000 for an in-state public college or $200,000 or more for a private or selective public college. The cost for your younger child will be even higher. If they borrow the entire cost, they're likely to remain financially disadvantaged for years. Students who overdose on loans often can't save enough for retirement and delay starting families and buying homes because of their debt. Anything you save for them could reduce that terrible burden.

You also might want to rethink the idea of retiring when they start college. Even if your husband has been maxing out his retirement fund, it's unlikely he'll have saved enough by age 52 to last the rest of your lives, particularly if you have to start paying for health insurance on your own. (Medicare isn't typically available until you're 65.)

You didn't mention savings. Most people should have an emergency fund equal to three months' expenses, but families with just one earner typically should shoot for six or even nine months' worth.

In any event, you almost certainly have better things to do with your money than pay down low-rate, potentially tax-deductible debt such as a mortgage.

A better approach might be to divide your inheritance into thirds, investing a third into an emergency fund, a third into your boys' educations and a third into retirement funds.

A visit to a fee-only financial planner could help you sort through your options and clarify your goals.

Liz Pulliam Weston is the author of the book "Your Credit Score: Your Money and What's at Stake." Questions for possible inclusion in her column may be sent to 3940 Laurel Canyon Blvd., No. 238, Studio City, CA 91604, or via the "Contact Liz" form at www.asklizweston.com. Distributed by No More Red Inc.

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